YO SPENCER! How long do you have to date someone before it’s appropriate to bring up the possibility of anal sex?
SPENCER: If you’re dating a guy, right away. If you’re dating girl, I think you’ll know pretty quick if she’s into that. If they’re not bringing it up, it’s not something on their agenda. That’s just realistic. I always say “If you stick your pinkie in there, and then another finger, and then another, and she responds happily, then it’s cool. I know my lady doesn't mind."
